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Dear How to Execute It,
I am a year-old guy who has been married to a woman for 45 years, with three grown kids. Over the course of our marriage, we have been very active sexually, but for various reasons over the past five or six years, our sexual task has declined dramatically. At the same time, over the past few years, I have change into fascinated with same-sex encounters. Is this unusual, especially this sdelayed in life? How should approach this with my wife
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Rob rushed into his first session with me, gym bag on one shoulder, briefcase on the other, 10 minutes late and out of breath. He fix his bags down, gently put his Blackberry on the table in front of him, and heaved himself onto the couch. He sighed and began: &#;Okay, I&#;m gay, I&#;m married, I have three kids, and I&#;m not getting divorced.&#; He&#;d common some of this communication with me in our phone conversation, but I was still struck by the sense of hopelessness in his tone. As he paused, awaiting my response, quite honestly, I was awaiting my response as well. I knew this was not Rob&#;s first experience in therapy and that a lot was riding on what I was about to say.
Rob had been referred by a former client of mine he&#;d met in an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting. Just out of alcohol rehabilitation treatment, he&#;d begun attending AA meetings, where he&#;d shared parts of his story. He described a long battle with his sexual orientation, growing up in a devoutly Roman Catholic family, where he learned that his sexual attraction
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A married dude curious about sex with another guy cheats on his wife and daughter &#;and who pays when his long-term sexual affair moves from the shadows into the light?
By Christopher Turner
A man’s libido &#; his sex drive &#; is sometimes subdued by age when his sexual experiences become numerous enough that he can look back and ask if he left anyone injured or damaged in his quest for sexual fulfillment.
Another observation &#; just as relevant &#; is how his sexual conduct reflects on his ideal of being a man.
What are the costs, and who pays, when a male who conducted himself as heterosexual into adulthood caves to his curiosity about sex with another man? Are both men complicit in a deception when the curious one is married and has an infant daughter? And who is to “blame” for the result when the deception comes out of the shadows into the light?
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